Communication pitfalls across stages

Hello! This is Episode 390, and I want to give you a framework that will help you understand why you can feel so unsure as you navigate the world of renovating and building. And frankly, it applies any time you tackle something new.

If you’ve got 47 browser tabs open, a Notes app full of screenshots, and a partner who is sick of hearing “I don’t know, I just need to think about it”, this episode is for you.

[For all resources mentioned in this podcast and a free, downloadable PDF transcript, head to www.undercoverarchitect.com/390]

Because here’s what I see all the time.

Homeowners are not struggling because they are incapable.

They are struggling because they are learning a whole new world, a whole new industry, while the consequences feel expensive, personal, and irreversible.

You are trying to make decisions about layouts, contracts, drawings, selections, builders, budgets, timelines, and regulations. Often while living your very full, demanding, everyday life. Often while feeling like you are meant to already know how this works.

So when you hesitate, when you go quiet, when you avoid the email, when you freeze in front of a quote, you make it mean you’re not doing it right.

But most of the time, it’s not a motivation or confidence issue.

It’s the stage you’re in. It’s what naturally happens when you’re taking on something new and complex, and the stakes feel high.

In this episode, I’m going to walk you through a simple framework called the Four Stages of Competence, so you can see exactly where you are in the learning curve of your project.

And once you can name the stage, you can stop judging yourself for it, and start using the right strategy for what you actually need next.

As always, if you’d like to access a full transcript of this episode and links to the resources I mention, head to www.undercoverarchitect.com/390.

Now, let’s dive in!

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