The Importance of Saying What You Need

The things we say equally like things we do could come from a place of need to say or for a place of wish, want and desire to say. For instance let's say somebody comes to us and says hey how's your new job  and we could reply fantastic I just got a promotion. Another hand you could go ahead and say something like fantastic just got a promoted now I'm earning in the six figure salary range. Was that necessary why did we say that? Is it was it a need or was it a wish,want and desire Do we want that person to be impressed to do we want to feel importantDo we want to feeling significant is gonna leave a sour aftert