Change Is a Choice, Not a Plan

In order for people to change, they need four s. These are ownership, independent capability, emotional courage and resilience. In this case, your daughter obviously going to value what her father has to say. But that isn't always the case. People have varying feelings about the people in their life who are trying to change them. So you have to realize that when you want other people to change and you want to help them change, you show up as an ally to support them. It's not going to be and you could predispose them to it. You could open to them them to the possibility of making the change. If ultimately she says, i don't care. I'm happy

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