On today's show I sat down with FrancesMary "FM" Loughead, a DePaul graduate who moved from downtown Chicago to Indianapolis in 2021 during COVID, initially living in Bloomington and later Brownsburg, Carmel, and Noblesville.
With no local network and working remotely, FM struggled to make adult friends and began using Bumble BFF, which led her to start a Facebook watch party for The Bachelorette that drew 15–20 women weekly. The group expanded into other events like wine nights and community outings, eventually becoming BFF Indy, officially launched in January 2024 with a 100-person party at The Hangar.
Today, BFF Indy has grown to almost 20,000 members, hosting events such as speed-friending, book swaps, happy hours, weekly walks, and an intergenerational event at a 55+ community, with a mission to provide an affordable, accessible community for women across Indianapolis.
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You are going to learn about: - The Idea Behind BFF Indy - BFF Indy Events and Mission - BFF Expansion to Other Cities
Thank you to our partners: Huse Culinary
Check out these great clips from the show: 00:26 Guest Introduction: FrancesMary Loughead, BFF Indy 02:09 Moving to Indy During COVID 02:50 Where to Live in Indy 06:21 Lonely Remote Work Reality 08:17 Trying Bumble BFF 11:27 Bachelorette Watch Parties 14:29 From Fan Group to BFF Indy 16:05 Launch Party and Rapid Growth 21:43 Small Groups and Real Connection 26:13 Advice for Newcomers 27:09 Taking the First Step 27:30 St Elmo Party Hack 28:30 Dating Scene and Bo 29:29 Two Years of BFF Indy 29:40 Speed Friending Highlights 30:37 Weekly Walks Expansion 32:27 Conversation Tips for New Friends 34:12 Being Open and Authentic 35:54 Future Growth and Support 36:51 Inspiration From Other Cities 38:52 Dream Partnerships and Local Faves 39:50 Indy Surprises and Inclusion 42:34 Unusual Events and Generations 44:24 Time and Business Balance 48:16 Expanding Beyond Indy 48:42 Why Indiana Feels Like Home 49:49 Noblesville Hidden Gems 51:12 Hoosier Creator Shoutout 52:13 Content and Fighting the Stigma 54:24 Where to Connect Next
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