What I'm Looking for in a Partner

I think there's a balance to be found because we sometimes have this fairy tale idea that our partner should meet our every need. I usually encourage people when they're dating to make a list of things that are important to you in a relationship and then let go of attachment to exactly what that has to look like. You may find, you may be surprised and it may be someone who you wouldn't have been open to if you were too attached to the idea of a partner looking a certain way or doing certain things. We love the idea of dating someone just like us. Wouldn't that be easy if our partner was just like us? There's a lot of value that someone can bring when