The Prophets Say, Time Heals All Wounds

Three days is the maximum time given where the death of somebody can cause us to alter our schedule. For three days it's halal. But after three days, halos. End of story and move on. The wife remains four months and ten days with extra rulings. And those rulings are not mourning their a, the hdad rulings. She does not beautify herself the way that a wife should beautify for her husband out of respect for her husband. So all of this we learn from the story of asma bentromes and the children of jafer. As they say, time heals all wounds. And willla, this is true. Allah has made us this way.