What Are Your Best Hips for Someone Who Might Be Experiencing Sexual Shame?

Shame is a physiological response, is fight or flight. You have to counteract it with something that makes you feel safe. I tell people to ask thereare their valvas? Are you ready to be touched? Or are there vaginas like, are you ready for something to be inserted? Have that conversation with your body parts. And then if it says yes, do just a little bit more, still siing in that safe zone.