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1170: [Part 2] Why Women Leave Their Ideal Marriages by Alysha Jeney of Modern Love Counseling

Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

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How to Communicate at a Level Five With Your Partner

Many women get so defeated by their perception of failed attempts that often they've already made up their minds to leave their marriages. This disconnectind communication is common in all the relationships i work with, and i explain it in terms of a vulnerability scale. I ask my clients to rate themselve based on a scale of one to five in vulnerability. When they come into session, they are mostly speaking their truths in an emotional five but when they're at home, they may only be communicating to each other at a level one through three. We don't realize that just because we're speaking doesn't mean our vulnerability and intention is being heard. Most of us feel isolated or misunderstood by our partner

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