Is Your Father Over Reacting?

Clare: My husband is always eflecting everything on to me. I don't he really realizes that he does it as much as he does, she writes. Clare says if the conversation is hard to have and if he's not as receptive,. i wonder what would happen if you, for a period of time, deliberately decision to just deflect all of it on to thomas? She suggests starting with three days before your mam comes into town; then la let a crescendo when she's arly.