Is It OK to Support Your Kids?

I think oftentimes appearants because they're so worried about this, they artificially, i don't want to say, punish the good decision maker. I'm just thinking, if there's like two, two different a stus, two siblings here, and it's ok to support your kids and provide opportunity for your kids, it's not ok to enable them. We can work on enabling, or nurturing, or bill gates created microsoptis that he had access to programming and coding and main frames in the seventh grade. So make sure you're using the resources. And looki ign is this an enabling thing, thats go create bad behaviors, or is this something that's actual