EP. 373: Stories We Tell Ourselves (And About Each Other)
ADHD for Smart Ass Women with Tracy Otsuka
Public Criticism Feels Different
Tracy contrasts private contained criticism with public attacks, noting agency and closure affect her nervous system.
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Your ADHD brain is one of the best storytellers in the room. The problem is it doesn't always know when it's making things up.
I'm recording this two days before movers arrive, from a house I no longer own, in a t-shirt, with dilated pupils. Classic.
I sold Bullfrog Farms, my six-and-a-half-acre country home, and decided to do the most opposite thing possible: move into a high-rise in San Francisco. Three HOA rejections later, all because of two small dogs named Teddy and Moe, I went from "this is inconvenient" to "we're basically going to be homeless" in under a week.
That spiral brought me back to something I keep teaching but had to relearn myself. In this episode I talk about the ADHD brain's compulsive need to fill uncertainty with narrative, the difference between reacting to a story and reacting to data, why public criticism hits differently than private criticism when your nervous system has no agency, and how a misidentified baby egret became the most honest lesson of the month.
If your brain has ever taken one rejection, one unanswered text, one hard week, and turned it into a verdict about your entire life, this one is for you.
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