Why do you keep falling for the wrong person—even when you know better? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five real reasons we choose partners who can’t meet us, from unresolved childhood patterns to moving too fast when chemistry hits. She challenges the idea of “soulmates” and explains why love isn’t something you find—it’s something you consciously build. If you’ve ever questioned your patterns in dating, this episode will help you understand them—and finally change them.