Is It All in Your Business?

"I was so unwilling and so afraid to let people help me. Why? Because my, the way that I masked my trauma was by trying to keep it all under my control," she says. "If you don't show up for what's up, it will keep showing up." The first step to overcoming the fear or transforming the fear is to look at it with a nonjudgmental eye; then call it by its name. In the absence of resistance, you become a magnet for what you desire.