Low self-worth draws negative partners

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Have you ever found yourself in a relationship that felt eerily similar to a past one that ended badly? Or maybe you finally achieved a goal you worked so hard for, but instead of celebrating, you found a way to completely mess it up?

You might think you are just unlucky or destined to struggle. But the truth is, your brain simply loves what is familiar—even if what is familiar is painful.

Your comfort zone isn't necessarily what's comfortable. It's what feels familiar, even when those things aren't good for you. Fortunately, you can learn to change what feels comfortable to you.

Some of the things I talk about are:

• Why your nervous system might prefer chaos over peace and how it tricks you into stirring up trouble.
• The fascinating reason why we are often drawn to people and situations that validate our lowest self-worth.
• Three actionable strategies to rewire your brain and stop repeating the same painful mistakes.
• Why feeling awkward, anxious, or guilty is actually the ultimate sign that you are making real progress.
• How to update your brain's "safety manual" so you can finally tolerate success and healthy relationships without self-sabotaging.

Related Episodes ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠300 — Why Your Nervous System Feels Broken and How to Reset It Without the Woo-Woo
• ⁠129 — Stop Letting Your Comfort Zone Kill You and Embrace Growth with Neuroscientist Paul Taylor

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