Self‑deception, Shame, and the Wounded Self

In this episode of "Being Human with Steve Cuss," Steve and author and spiritual guide Andrew Arndt explore fallout from prominent Christian leaders' public confessions of wrongdoing. They explore the spiritual and psychological dynamics that lead to such failures, including the dangers of living a double life, the creation of a false self, and the importance of empathy and repentance. Andrew shares insights from his new book A Strange and Gracious Light: How the Story of Jesus Changes the Way We See Everything and reflects on personal growth, leadership, and the healing power of unconditional love within the church community. Steve and Andrew emphasize honesty, vulnerability, and the ongoing journey toward wholeness.

Biblical Passages

• I Corinthians 13 (ESV)

• Luke 5:31 (ESV)

Episode Resources:

• Andrew Arndt’s A Strange and Gracious Light: How the Story of Jesus Changes the Way We See Everything

• Fyodor Dostoevsky’s The Brothers Karamazov

• Frederick Buechner’s Telling the Truth: The Gospel as Tragedy, Comedy, and Fairy Tale

• C.S. Lewis's The Abolition of Man

• Rich Mullins on Salvation and "God in His Mercy" (video)

• Henri Nouwen's In the Name of Jesus

More From Andrew Arndt:

• Andrew Arndt’s Streams in the Wasteland: Finding Spiritual Renewal with the Desert Fathers and Mothers

• Andrew Arndt’s All Flame: Entering into the Life of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit

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