What Is the Difference Between Reactive Desire and Spontaneous Desire?

There are two different kinds of sexual desire, basically. One is responsive desire, and the other one is spontaneous desire. Spontaneous desire pens because you get physiologically turned you desire sex, and then you get physiological turned on. Responsive desire means that we actually need to be turned on first before we actually want to have sex. It doesn't mean tat you have a low sex drive. Just means your kind of desire is different from what we've been seeing in society and culture most of the time.