Why chores trigger panic for parents

ADHD & Autism: Why Chores Are So Hard and How To Teach Chores in a Way That Actually Works:)

Why do chores turn into power struggles in so many ADHD and autistic families?

It's not laziness. It's not defiance. And it's definitely not a character flaw.

In this episode of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Holly Blanc Moses sits down with adolescent psychologist Dr. Cam Caswell to unpack why chores feel like a nightmare for neurodivergent kids and teens.

If you're parenting a child with ADHD or autism and struggling with:

• Executive functioning challenges
• Chore refusal
• Emotional meltdowns over "simple" tasks
• Fear about your child's future
• Power struggles at home

This conversation will change how you see chores forever.

You'll learn:

✔ Why chasing compliance actually builds resentment ✔ The difference between responsibility and obedience ✔ How executive functioning impacts task initiation ✔ Why chores are an adult priority (not a teen priority) ✔ How to teach life skills without shame ✔ A neurodiversity-affirming approach to building ownership ✔ How to reduce conflict while increasing competence

This episode is essential listening for:

• Parents of ADHD and/or autistic children and teens
• Therapists and psychologists working with neurodivergent families
• Educators
• Parenting coaches

If you want to raise responsible, confident kids without damaging connection — this episode is for you!

Sincerely, Holly Blanc Moses, The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist

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About Holly Blanc Moses

Holly Blanc Moses is a neurodivergent psychologist, speaker, consultant, continuing education provider, and host of The Autism ADHD Podcast, Autism ADHD TV, and parent masterclasses.

About Dr. Cam

Dr. Cam Caswell, PhD—"The Teen Translator"—is an adolescent psychologist, parenting coach, TEDx speaker, and host of the Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam podcast. With over 20 years of experience and a teen of her own, Dr. Cam combines professional expertise with personal insight to help parents stop yelling, start connecting, and rebuild trust at home. With over 330K followers on Instagram, she's a trusted voice for parents who want practical, compassionate support, not more guilt. As one parent shared, "I learned more in 20 minutes than in 4 years of struggling with my teen."

Her mission: Empower parents. Uplift teens. Transform families.