Nines Aren't a Problem

low level nine's can be chronically sluggish and immovable. The nine puts up a wall when really just a fence with a gate you know some boundaries but if you don't like that process of putting up boundaries with people then you might just avoid them all together. Sometimes nines can blacklist people that maybe just needed to be confrontedYou could just confront somebody but there's that discord that fear of discord or that fear that person is gonna be upset with me where you could just go to them and say hey dad you need to lay off  and I'll take care of it later.