
Day 420 || how to stop ruminating
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Make Your Dambed Podcast - I Love You Very Much, and I'll Talk to You to Morrow While You Make Your Dreadful Bed
In general, if you find yourself ruminating, question your thoughts. See if you can create a plan and actually take action against whatever you're dwelling on. Write down what's really going on, get specific, and then genuinely work to outline a strategy or a way to address this situation. Be realistic and see if you can map out the next steps to feel better about that situation. If you can run it by an objective third party, somebody who has no stakes and can really tell you if you're making good next choice or not. Because typically rumination only hurts you. You dwelling on the past does not change it. It never will. The only thing that you can change is
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