1101: How Can You Change Your Boyfriend Without Him Getting Insulted by Evan Marc Katz on Giving Constructive Criticism
Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
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How Can You Change Your Boyfriend Without Him Getting Offended?
People are sensitive, especially if a criticism hits too close to home. So jules, put yourself in his shoes. Ask how you'd feel if he i sected your behavior ask how he could criticize you without offending you. That subtle shift between placing blame and letting me know how she felt makes the same point much more palatable. This is a great tool to keep in mind, yet dif to execute sometimes if we aren't actively trying to.
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