Writing About Grief

I want to ask you about writing about grief, specifically around the loss of friends. There are moments in this book that that gesture towards autobiography. And i i think that writing about grief is such a hard thing to do, and when it's done well, it's so marvellous. The experience that i'm talking about was that my friend passed away right when dear sibergs came out. So if you want to rapproach it, kind of honestly, but also say something about it, i didn't find it easy to do.