The Prophet Said, Amliklisana, Control the Tone

Wakul cala sadid, and utter that which is adid. Sadid means upright. Do not say a single word out of turn, out of tune. Whoever believes in allah will either utter beautiful, good words or remain silent. You can't say a bad word from your mouth. The tongue in marriage will make or break it. Your own children, watch how you talk to them. Treat them in a similar, if not better way. May alla help us.