1323: Listen to Your Lookout by Keith Wilson on How Couples Can Care For and Support One Another
Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
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What to Expect From a Lookout
Many people fail to use their lookout when they see the problem coming. They argue with her, deny its happening and get defensive. Many lookouts don't understand their role too well. If your partner comes down from the crow's nest and tells you that you've got to look out for your own problem, you can figure that next she'll be going off in a lifeboat. True partners do not resign as lookouts, unless they're about to leave the relationship, or they're a fool. She has to be a lookout, if only to guard her own interests. A good lookout stays awake. He doesn't watch like a hawk in the beginning and then forget about it later on
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