Anger Is the Drawn Sword of Human Relationships

In your book, you write that anger is the drawn sword of human relationships. What do you mean by that? I guess it was an image that came to me when I was thinking about this. You're drawing that sword, you're readying yourself and there's this kind of threat implied in that. Is there something to that? Sometimes we think of anger as this unbidden,. uncontrolled emotion that just kind of appears and wells up maybe outside of our control to some extent. That is such an interesting question and such a difficult question because there is a madness, there is a out of controlness.