Pickleball exposed hidden incompetence

Brené Brown uses pickleball to show how feedback and coaching reveal both performance gaps and the inability to judge excellence.

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What happens when your confidence outruns your competence? Brené and Adam start with freestyle skiing champ Eileen Gu’s extraordinary Olympic press conference and use it to explore metacognition—how to notice your thinking, question it, and change it on purpose. They dig into the Dunning–Kruger effect, calibration, journaling, and feedback, discuss why we’re so bad at estimating timelines, and consider how “I’ve got this” energy can quietly wreck projects, relationships, and learning. From pickleball and ping pong to therapy and team meetings, this episode is about building the inner game of better thinking without losing your nerve along the way.

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Chapters:

0:00 - Introductions

3:45 - Eileen Gu’s Metacognition

12:22 - What is Metacognition?

25:10 - What is Dunning-Kruger?

38:14 - Time Estimation and The Planning Fallacy

44:36 - Metacognition and Dunning-Kruger Final Thoughts

58:17 - Wrap up

Shownotes:

I hate minimalism - Hank Green, TikTok

Strong Ground: The Lessons of Daring Leadership, the Tenacity of Paradox, and the Wisdom of the Human Spirit - Brené Brown, 2025, Book