We call it "normal life."
But for most of us, it's a low-grade chronic stress loop.
News alerts. Group chats. Doomscrolling. Constant urgency.
In this episode of Dealing With Feeling, Dr. Marc Brackett sits down with clinical psychologist and author Dr. Elisha Goldstein to explore how tiny emotional shifts can interrupt stress patterns, strengthen relationships, and change the trajectory of our health over time.
This is a conversation about emotional longevity — and what it means to stop living in permanent survival mode.
In this conversation:
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Why anxiety is not your identity, but a reinforced loop
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How low-grade stress becomes "the water we swim in"
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Elisha's 4R method: Recognize, Release, Refocus, Reinforce
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Moving from blame into skillful emotional requests in relationships
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How small shifts in real moments create long-term change
About the guest:
Dr. Elisha Goldstein is a clinical psychologist, teacher, and author whose work focuses on mindfulness, resilience, and emotional health.
Guest links:
Website: https://elishagoldstein.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/drelishagoldstein
Connect with Marc Brackett:
Website: https://marcbrackett.com
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LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/drmarcbrackett
Dr. Marc Brackett's Books
Explore Marc Brackett's work at the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, where he serves as founding director, and learn more about RULER—an evidence-based, systemic approach to SEL developed at Yale that supports leaders, educators, students, and families in building emotional intelligence and creating healthier school climates.
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