Move Out of Fight-Flight Into Compassion

On this episode: Nate and Aaron record the last episode (of 2025). Do you mourn and weep for yourself or others on Christmas? Is this Christmas different? Also, Christmas mafia and underground crimes rings.This week, Nate and Aaron interview returning guest Drew Boa. Drew has written a new book entitled: Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle—A Mans Guide To Healing. Drew is sharing the cure to porn, that also comes with maintenance. Discussion includes disagreement with 12-step thinking and purity culture. Drew suggests looking at maturity instead of purity, helping the inner child grow and heal. Other topics include studying our stories and selves, relationships with parents, and the “C” words.Links:
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Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle—A Mans Guide To Healing, by Drew BoaNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
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