How to Argue to the Best of Your Ability

Don't worry about how good your arguments and apologies look versus how good they really are underneath the surface. The more you can flex that muscle of holding yourself accountable, the less you will subconsciously make efforts to falsely hold your partner accountable. If he's the right guy, he will love you for your flaws. He doesn't have to be the only one causing rifts in this relationship in order for you to be loved or be deserving of love.