Pre-Skates & ID Skates Explained: What Parents NEED to Know Before Tryouts
Our Kids Play Hockey
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🔥 ID skates. Pre-skates. Early evaluations. Winter “select” teams.
If you’re a hockey parent right now, your inbox is probably full — and your anxiety might be too.
So what are ID skates really?
Are they opportunities… or just early tryouts in disguise?
In this episode of Our Kids Play Hockey, Lee and Mike break down the real story behind pre-skates and ID skates — what they mean, when they make sense, and when parents need to take a deep breath and relax.
Because here’s the truth:
Most teams already have 85–90% of their roster projected.
Most ID skates are not magic auditions.
And the pressure we’re putting on kids? It’s often way too much.
đź’ˇ Inside this episode:
- What ID skates are actually being used for
- When attending one makes sense (and when it doesn’t)
- The difference between a coach and a salesman
- Why shopping around has consequences
- Tier 1 vs Tier 2: how to evaluate a move
- Why being on a “B” team is NOT a failure
- How to talk to your child before an evaluation
- And why calm parents raise confident players
⚠️ Buyer beware: If you’re being “yes’d to death,” promised captaincy, or guaranteed a top line… that’s not development — that’s sales.
Most importantly, this episode is about perspective.
Youth hockey is a journey.
ID skates are a moment.
Don’t let a moment define the journey.
Have thoughts on this one? We want to hear them. Email us at team@ourkidsplayhockey.com and tell us what’s happening in your rink.
📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: The Truth About Hockey ID Skates: A Parent’s Guide to Pre-Skates & Tryouts
Enjoy evaluation season — and remember to breathe. 🏒
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