Are You Sure That You're Yes Anding?

As long as you are both yes anding each other, there really is no bad choice. If you're not emploiting what you've already done, then you're doing a great job at yes anding. And this is the same in real life, if you are living your life in a way that society doesn't really understand. Who cares? It's not your problem and it's not theirs. As long as you aren't hurting anyone or putting any one else into danger,. who cares what they think?