004: Why I Stopped Punishing My Kids: Replacing Punishment with Connection Part 1 by Bridget McNamara of Family Optimized
Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
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Every Unwanted Behavior Is a Cry for an Unmet Need
Every undesirable behavior is a cry for an unmet need. The difference between responding with punishment and responding with connection is that with the latter, you stay connected. In those most difficult blood pressure raising infuriating moments when I want to yell and send them to their rooms, showing empathy is the most difficult thing to do. You have to try it. It really, really works.
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