The Nine's Passive Aggressive Stuff Plays a Key All Right

A nine might be afraid the other person will be upset and cut them off. An eight would have no problem saying yeah sorry Tom I can't help you with that, even sometimes a one might have no problem sayYeah sorry Tom I got other things I gotta do. The night's gonna feel this pressure to like they already know what my want is more than their own but then kind of kick themselves all the way home or tell themselves oh it's fine  and they needed help.