The Importance of Kindness in Islam

subhanAllah looks at how amazingly the du'a of the processum was answered that Allah as so as you answered. The whole tribe of benuhanifah did not convert but the chieftain converted and once the chieftains converts you will have a large number of people converting also we notice over here gentleness will get you what harshness will not get you thumama is treated gently thumama was given better food than the rest of the people  for three days when he sees the reality of islam his heart opens up, according to eben hajjah who comments on this.