Relationship Advice - Is There a Goldilocks Effect?

We all have urges for variety, whether it be in or out of relationships. The best way of relating to these urges is to be honest and communicative about them. Don't turn that suspicion into shame. Express your girl friend's side of the goldilocks effect. Let her know how you're probably over reacting a tad. It'll also turn into a relation that celebrates this part of you. Abefore anyone gets up in arms about this, let's not get on our high horses, and instead remind ourselves that we all have urge for variety.