ADHD, desire differences, and timing

Burlesque, rope suspension, and sexology studies—Bebe returns to share how curiosity, communication, and neurodivergence are shaping their evolving experiences of pleasure, connection, and self-discovery.

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📈 STATS | 29 neurodivergent plus size queer person, she/they pronouns, bisexual, ethically non-monogamous, partnered 2.5 years, support worker, sexology student, burlesque performer, rope bunny, Australian.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Burlesque, sexology studies, and expanding into kink, disability, and non-monogamy 

02:23 Using podcast questions to spark threesomes and connection

07:23 Sexology deep dive: shame, stigma, and the cultural myths around sex

11:09 Disability, neurodivergence, and creating more inclusive sexual spaces

17:02 Boundaries, containers, and navigating sexual conversations in daily life

20:40 Exploring new partners, threesomes, and learning to ask for pleasure

26:42 Femme sex party dynamics, topping energy, and nipple play connections

31:17 Pleasure, orgasms, and honoring different bodies and experiences

33:00 Safety practices, STI conversations, and navigating group play boundaries

38:27 Sensory needs, gloves for lube, and neurodivergent experiences of touch

40:01 ADHD, desire differences, and meeting partners in the middle

46:18 Non-monogamy, jealousy, and rebuilding trust through communication

49:03 Erotic toys, intense squirting, and a deeply cathartic orgasmic release

53:07 Aftercare, emotional vulnerability, and feeling fully held by a partner

55:09 Reciprocity, giving pleasure, and redefining balance in relationships

57:21 Dominance, nurturing kink, and exploring their “mommy” energy

01:02:24 Shibari journey: from beginner to full suspension and body trust

01:07:35 Rope, fear of heights, and building safety through partner connection

01:15:41 Pain, sensation, and grounding through rope marks and pressure

01:23:48 Body image, comparison, and self-awareness in kink spaces

01:28:11 Naming emotions, self-regulation, and growing emotional clarity

01:32:20 Self-esteem, performance identity, and unpacking internal narratives

01:37:47 Creating identity: “Bebe” as self, stage persona, and beyond

01:40:12 Sex therapy, workshops, and rope retreats

01:46:42 Breaking down hidden layers of shame

Bebe’s episode from October 2024 | Laughing, Crying, Cumming

Bebe’s episode from November 2024 | Ho Phase 2.0

Bebe’s love stories from November 2024 | Burlesque, Bisexuality & Adoration

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