How to Be an Effective Giver

Can ethics, generosity, and long-term relationships really outperform aggression in venture capital? David Weisburd speaks with David Hornik about why “nice guys finish first… eventually,” how power-law outcomes shape a venture career, and why reputation compounds more reliably than tactics. Hornik explains why backing unflinchingly ethical founders isn’t just moral—it’s a durable competitive advantage in an industry defined by uncertainty.

Highlights:

• Why Hornik only backs founders who are “unflinchingly ethical”
• Ethics vs. culture: where pushing hard crosses the line
• Why venture capital is a business of disappointment—and patience
• How one out of ten investments defines an entire career
• The human cost of startup failure and why it never gets easier
• Why power laws make venture outcomes feel irrational
• Compounding reputation as the most valuable long-term asset
• The “transitive property of reputation” in deal sourcing
• Why founders should diligence investors as hard as VCs diligence founders
• Giving vs. taking—and why pure givers still need boundaries
• Media, conferences, and platforms as multiplicative ways to add value
• EQ vs. IQ: why emotional intelligence matters more than raw intelligence
• Why Hornik won’t invest without sharing a meal with founders

Guest Bio:

David Hornik is the Founder of Lobby Capital and a veteran venture capitalist with over 25 years of experience investing from seed to pre-IPO. He previously spent two decades at August Capital and was the first institutional investor in companies including Splunk. David is known for his emphasis on ethics, reputation, and long-term relationship-building as core drivers of venture success.

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(0:00) Introduction (1:18) Work-life balance in venture capital (3:31) Investment disappointments and startup failures (7:14) Power law outcomes and investment concentration (10:37) Compounding reputation and career effects (15:00) Long-term relationships and winning deals (19:07) Diligence and investment strategy contrasts (22:07) Role of luck and insights from Adam Grant (28:12) Building a network and leveraging media (30:27) Balancing IQ and EQ in startups (34:28) Advice and validation of relationship-based strategies (37:21) Understanding entrepreneurs and authenticity (38:41) Closing remarks