
How To Master "Lucky Girl Syndrome" And Own Every Room You Enter! @Dr.ShadeZahrai
Hot Smart Rich with Maggie Sellers Reum
Rejection Therapy and Building Autonomy
They cover rejection therapy examples, asking for discounts, and using small risks to increase internal locus of control.
Confidence coach & behavioral researcher, Dr. Shadé Zahrai, reveals 4 mindset shifts to stop self-doubt, build confidence, and own any room!
Why do some women walk in and get taken seriously instantly, while others overthink every move, over-apologise, and shrink themselves at work?
Maggie and Dr. Shadé unpack the hidden habits holding ambitious women back, the psychology behind “Lucky Girl Syndrome,” and why high-achieving women still struggle with self-worth. From speaking with authority to asking for more at work, this conversation is a masterclass in becoming the woman who stops second-guessing herself and starts being seen, heard, and respected!
Timestamps:
00:00:00 Intro
00:01:55 What a Confidence Expert Does
00:03:56 The Truth About Self-Doubt
00:09:37 The 4 Traits Shaping Self-Worth
00:12:15 Change Your Personality in 6 Weeks
00:13:44 Is Personality Born or Built?
00:16:08 4 Signs You Don’t Accept Yourself
00:19:12 Why Successful People Feel Inadequate
00:21:43 Why Failure Feels Personal
00:23:31 Rewire Your Fear of Failure
00:25:37 The Michael Phelps Mindset Trick
00:28:22 The 3-Step Failure Recovery Framework
00:30:50 Why High Achievers Fear Failure
00:33:01 A Simple Tool for Pressure
00:34:35 The Trait That Builds Confidence
00:36:50 Why Confidence Follows Action
00:38:19 The “Impossible Problem” Story
00:40:27 Ad Break
00:41:30 Why “Delusion” Can Build Success
00:45:35 Rejection Therapy Explained
00:47:17 The Third Trait: Taking Control
00:49:02 Why You Feel Stuck
00:52:40 Stop Saying “You Should”
00:54:14 What To Say Instead
00:56:37 How To Ask For A Raise
00:57:28 How To Stop Being Ignored
01:00:31 Stop Over-Apologising
01:02:28 2 Ways To Control Emotion
01:04:01 Quick Confidence Tricks
01:08:42 How To Walk In Confidently
01:10:55 Nail Your Promotion Conversation
01:16:18 Women in Male-Dominated Workplaces
01:18:57 Why Women Undermine Women
01:26:29 Why One Size Doesn’t Work
01:28:10 You Can’t Please Everyone
01:29:13 Where To Find The Book
01:29:46 Last Thing On Your Credit Card?
01:29:55 Most Expensive Card Purchase?
01:30:12 Most Confident Person You’ve Met?
01:30:34 Books Or Podcasts?
01:30:38 Where Inspiration Comes From
01:31:18 This Season Of Life
01:32:09 Her HSR Love Note
01:32:40 Where To Find Shadé
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Dr. Shadé Zahrai, is globally recognized behavioral researcher, scholar-practitioner, and award-winning peak performance educator to Fortune 100s. An ex-Lawyer armed with a background in psychology, an MBA, and a PhD in organizational behavior, she’s one of the leading voices on confidence and performance, and her new bestselling book, Big Trust: Rewire Self-Doubt, Find Your Confidence, Fuel Success, is transforming the lives of tens of thousands of people all over the world.
Latest Book, Big Trust: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Trust-Self-Doubt-Confidence-Success/dp/0063378159/
Follow Dr. Shadé Zahrai www.instagram.com/shadezahrai
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