First Date Confirmations and Leadership

This episode is for singles and married women! Allie and Christian Bevere discuss the importance of intentionality in the dating and marriage journey. Christian shares her experience of praying for her future husband from age 21, which led to her meeting and marrying her husband at 23. They emphasize the significance of infusing prayers with scripture and the value of accountability. Christian highlights the transformative power of prayer in her life and marriage and the need for faith and hope, especially for those who have been waiting long periods. Allie and Christian also touch on the challenges of modern dating and the benefits of a community-based courting system. At the end of the day, the ultimate pursuit should be after godliness in dating, marriage, and parenting.

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Timecodes:

(00:00) Intro

(02:25) Praying for Your Future Husband

(09:00) Mistakes while Dating

(16:55) Pursuit of Godliness

(24:15) Dating & Marriage Story

(33:05) Perspectives on Dating

(43:10) Prayers Answered

(55:00) Praying for Your Current Husband

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