We're at a Party. How Did You Get Here Tonight?

How did you get here tonight? You know, it sounds like a monday question, but it actually gets someone talking about a sequence of events from their life. Like, who do you know that knows the host? Right? How did you get invited? Why does this matter to you, this party? And you're going to be more interested and engaged because of that,. Because you don't know where the conversation could lead from there. We always say, don't ask for answers. Ask for stories.