Shifts in demographics and boys following girls

Today I'm sharing a conversation I had with Dennison Joyce on his show Through the Looking Glass, originally aired on WIOX Radio last year (episode #228). Dennison asked me to walk through my program for parents, ROGD Repair, and to break down the framework I call the Trifecta of Social Contagion — the three interlocking forces I believe are driving the epidemic of young people identifying as transgender.

Those three forces are: gender identity ideology, woke social justice narratives, and Cluster B personality traits. I explain how these elements work together like a perfectly engineered mind virus, exploiting the unique vulnerabilities of today's youth — their insecurities, rigidity, and need for identity — and how this creates a near-impossible situation for parents trying to help their kids. I also address the manufactured consensus inside the medical and psychiatric professions, and why so many therapists who could help are simply staying away from this issue.

We also get into the practical side of my coaching work — what the ROGD Repair program is, how I work with families, and some of the most common mistakes parents make, including why showing your child detransitioner videos usually backfires. I share how porn, particularly hypnosis-style content, is deeply connected to the rise in gender confusion in teenage boys, and why early intervention matters more than most parents realize.

FYI: this interview was recorded a few months prior to the release of RepairBot. All new ROGD Repair memberships now come with unlimited access to RepairBot, the AI companion tool designed to help with homework and strategizing.

Books mentioned in this episode:

• Trans by Helen Joyce

Dennison Joyce hosts Through the Looking Glass on WIOX Radio. Big thanks to Dennison for this wonderful interview, and for sharing the recording with me with permissions to republish.

[00:00:00] Start
[00:01:40] Stephanie's Background as a Gender-Affirming Therapist
[00:03:55] The Trifecta of Social Contagion Explained
[00:08:07] Cluster B Personality Traits Unpacked
[00:10:28] Social Justice Narratives and Intellectual Families
[00:12:12] Gender Identity Ideology and Its Roots
[00:13:23] Why Good Therapists Are Avoiding This Issue
[00:14:53] The Manufactured Consensus in Medicine
[00:17:29] How Parents Find Stephanie and ROGD Repair
[00:20:40] The Coaching Process: Working with Families
[00:22:14] Harm Reduction When Medicalization Has Already Begun
[00:23:49] Common Parental Mistakes: Detransitioner Videos Backfire
[00:27:42] When Parents Aren't on the Same Page
[00:30:14] Shift in Demographics: Boys Now Following Girls
[00:31:10] Pornography's Role in Male Gender Confusion
[00:34:35] Why Parents Should Seek Help Sooner

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