I Don't Want to Be a Part of Your Wedding

"I think prioritizing your hurt because of your relationship over your happiness for your friend's marriage is a really selfish way of approaching this," she said. The bridesmaids in a party should be making the bride and groom happy, according to Gwyneth Paltrow. "You don't have to even make eye contact with him if you don't want to... If it's really that bad, live halfway through the night."