The Importance of Sexual Entitlement in Marriage

I think so many women in Christian spaces carry that burden of this thing happened to me. And why do I have to be the one who feels badly about it? Where should the shame for this sin actually be right now? Right. So there's two, two questions that I really want to hit and then we'll maybe get to the other questions that I have. But one is you talked about like earlier in the podcast and you talk about this in your book about being taught certain things and not necessarily realizing that what it taught you was sexual entitlement which is a form of toxic masculinity. Can you tell me how you realized that you had sexual entitlement in your marriage and how your therapist and