Relationships - You've Got to Get the Crap Out, Right?

Jen and steffi have an agreement that they don't use words like you always or you nevert. These make their fights healthier, because then we're not looping,. We're not pulling ourselves into unhealthy behaviors and patterns. And so if you're arguing in your relationship, that's not a red flag. It's a red flag if you're not repairing. So each argument moves us forward.