You say tomato, I say shut up

In this laugh-out-loud memoir, real-life couple Annabelle Gurwitch and Jeff Kahn chronicle their thirteen years of marriage through a he-said/she-said format, highlighting complaining, codependence, and their journey with their son diagnosed with VACTERL birth defects.

They defy conventional wisdom by embracing a lack of intimacy, competitive parenting, and dropping out of therapy, proving that love endures amid differences.