

#3207
Mentioned in 16 episodes
Healing the Shame That Binds You
Book • 1988
This book explores how toxic shame is the core motivator behind various toxic behaviors such as compulsion, co-dependency, addiction, and the drive to superachieve.
It explains how these behaviors can break down family systems and destroy personal lives.
Bradshaw provides techniques to identify, understand, and address the root causes of shame, and offers methods such as affirmations, visualizations, 'inner voice' and 'feeling' work, and guided meditations to release and heal from this shame.
The book emphasizes the importance of recognizing and working through internalized shame to achieve wholeness and well-being.
It explains how these behaviors can break down family systems and destroy personal lives.
Bradshaw provides techniques to identify, understand, and address the root causes of shame, and offers methods such as affirmations, visualizations, 'inner voice' and 'feeling' work, and guided meditations to release and heal from this shame.
The book emphasizes the importance of recognizing and working through internalized shame to achieve wholeness and well-being.
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Mentioned in 16 episodes
Mentioned by 

as a book that pushed the idea of healing your inner child.


Mark Manson

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How to Let Go of Your Shame, Solved
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as a book that helped him deal with shame.

Jason Portnoy

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when referencing John Bradshaw's concept linking internal shame to self-medication behaviors.

Paul Gilmartin

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as a resource for understanding emotional wounding from childhood.


Kristen Carder

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305 Boredom is the Price of Success—Are You Willing to Pay It?
Recommended as one of the deepest books on shame.

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318 The Real Reason You Can’t Get Organized (And What To Do About It)
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as the source where the dialogue modality was described and introduced to him by George Collins.

Brendan Burns

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19: The Dialogue Modality: Use This Tool to Change Your Mind & Your Life
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as a foundational resource on shame and how it interferes with spirituality and recovery.


Matt Dobschuetz

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370- Breaking Shame Pt. 2
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as a book that helped him understand and release shame.


Robert Glover
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315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover)
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as impactful in his journey of self-acceptance and understanding the consequences of not knowing oneself.

Joe Corpus

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289 Self-Awareness (And Why People With ADHD Suck At It)
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to a caller struggling with shame after losing his job.


Ken Coleman

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I Have Over $300k Cash Sitting In My House (I'm Scared Of The Stock Market)



