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Mentioned in 31 episodes
Coming Apart
Why Relationships End and How to Live Through the Ending of Yours
Book • 2020
In 'Coming Apart,' Daphne Rose Kingma provides a refreshing perspective on relationships by arguing that relationships are not always meant to be forever.
She suggests that relationships serve as vehicles for personal growth and development, and their endings are often a natural part of this process.
Kingma explains that people choose relationships based on their developmental needs, which are rooted in childhood experiences.
The book offers practical advice and a process for working through the ending of a relationship, including a personal workbook to help readers heal and move forward.
It emphasizes the importance of understanding the lessons learned from each relationship and finding joy and appreciation in the experiences shared with partners.
She suggests that relationships serve as vehicles for personal growth and development, and their endings are often a natural part of this process.
Kingma explains that people choose relationships based on their developmental needs, which are rooted in childhood experiences.
The book offers practical advice and a process for working through the ending of a relationship, including a personal workbook to help readers heal and move forward.
It emphasizes the importance of understanding the lessons learned from each relationship and finding joy and appreciation in the experiences shared with partners.
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