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Mentioned in 18 episodes

She comes first

the thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman
Book • 2004
She Comes First is an essential guidebook to oral sex, offering a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women.

Written by sex therapist Ian Kerner, the book details dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman.

It includes a detailed anatomy lesson, step-by-step instructions, and practical tips to improve sexual satisfaction.

Kerner argues that oral sex is not just foreplay but a crucial part of the entire arousal process, making it a vital component of sexual relationships.

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Mentioned in 18 episodes

Mentioned by Dr.
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Emily Morse
when discussing how to understand one's own arousal and desire.
40 snips
The Ultimate Guide to Having Better Sex
Mentioned by Steve as the book he left out when the crew came over to his house.
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Ep 594 - Gooniverse (feat. Steve Gerben & Billy)
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Jolene Brighten
as a great book for men to read on how to give pleasure.
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Let’s Talk About Sex
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Dave Asprey
as a helpful book about prioritizing female pleasure in sexual relationships.
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Meditation: The Ultimate Biohack for a Longer Life | Dave Asprey | Align Podcast #544
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Jon Vroman
as a book that provides a framework for transforming relationships.
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The Legendary Couples Blueprint: 4 Pillars for a Thriving Marriage
Mentioned by Dr. Rena Malik as a New York Times bestselling book.
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Sex therapist Reveals the Uncomfortable Reason Your Sex Life Sucks ft. Ian Kerner
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Jolene Brighten
when talking about what Dr. Ian Kerner coined as clitorate, where he actually wrote a book and he encouraged men to start with oral sex.
The Orgasm Gap [Luminescence Podcast]
Mentioned by Dr. Rena Malik as a popular book offering demonstrations on how to give oral sex.
Porn Sex vs. Real Sex: Why Watching Real Sex Can Help! ft. Cindy Gallop

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