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Mentioned in 18 episodes
She comes first
the thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman
Book • 2004
She Comes First is an essential guidebook to oral sex, offering a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women.
Written by sex therapist Ian Kerner, the book details dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman.
It includes a detailed anatomy lesson, step-by-step instructions, and practical tips to improve sexual satisfaction.
Kerner argues that oral sex is not just foreplay but a crucial part of the entire arousal process, making it a vital component of sexual relationships.
Written by sex therapist Ian Kerner, the book details dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman.
It includes a detailed anatomy lesson, step-by-step instructions, and practical tips to improve sexual satisfaction.
Kerner argues that oral sex is not just foreplay but a crucial part of the entire arousal process, making it a vital component of sexual relationships.
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Mentioned in 18 episodes
Recommended as a resource with diagrams, tips, and tricks for performing male to female oral sex.

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#371 – Women's sexual health: desire, arousal, and orgasms, navigating perimenopause, and enhancing satisfaction | Sally Greenwald, M.D., M.P.H.
Recommended by Dr. Rena Malik as a how-to guide focusing on clitoral stimulation.

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A Woman's Sexual Desire - How To Last Longer In Bed, Increase Penis Size & Master Seduction | Dr. Rena Malik PT 1
Mentioned by Dr. 

when discussing how to understand one's own arousal and desire.


Emily Morse

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The Ultimate Guide to Having Better Sex
Mentioned by Steve as the book he left out when the crew came over to his house.

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Ep 594 - Gooniverse (feat. Steve Gerben & Billy)
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as a great book for men to read on how to give pleasure.

Jolene Brighten

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Let’s Talk About Sex
Recommended by 

as a helpful book about prioritizing female pleasure in sexual relationships.


Dave Asprey

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Meditation: The Ultimate Biohack for a Longer Life | Dave Asprey | Align Podcast #544
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as a book that provides a framework for transforming relationships.

Jon Vroman

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The Legendary Couples Blueprint: 4 Pillars for a Thriving Marriage
Mentioned by Dr. Rena Malik as a New York Times bestselling book.

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Sex therapist Reveals the Uncomfortable Reason Your Sex Life Sucks ft. Ian Kerner
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when talking about what Dr. Ian Kerner coined as clitorate, where he actually wrote a book and he encouraged men to start with oral sex.

Jolene Brighten

The Orgasm Gap [Luminescence Podcast]
Mentioned by Dr. Rena Malik as a popular book offering demonstrations on how to give oral sex.

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